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26
Solution-Focused
Broadcasts Await You Here
I had the
privilege of producing 26 parenting talk
shows for Voice America where some of the
world’s
top parenting experts shared their best
parenting tips
with me on my “Real Parents.
Real Solutions” show.
I’m happy to share the
replays of those broadcasts
with you here. Just
scroll down and click on the
“listen here” link
to get answers to some
of the parenting
challenges you may be facing.
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"10 Tips for Going
“Greener” as a Family"
January 20, 2010 Episode - Listen
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10 Tips for Going “Greener” as a
Family
Going green is not only good for
the earth, it’s good for your
health. Certain products contain
toxins that are dangerous to you
and your kids. Learn the “top
secret” body care ingredients
you’ll want to avoid, which
fruits and veggies you’ll want
to buy organic, which plastics
are contaminating our kids, how
to clean your house safely and
other great tips that will help
your family stay healthy. Join
Toni when she talks with Micaela
Preston, author of “Practically
Green: Your Guide to Ecofriendly
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"Solutions to the Top
10 Parenting
Challenges from Toddler to Teen"
January 13, 2010 Episode - Listen
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Solutions
to the Top 10 Parenting
Challenges from Toddler to Teen
Today you’ll get answers to the
Top 10 parenting challenges from
one of the premier parenting
experts, Michele Borba, author
of “The BIG Book of Parenting
Solutions” and NBC Today Show
parenting contributor. Tune in
for answers on how to get your
child to listen, firm up your
discipline, reduce sibling
rivalry, help an angry child,
reduce back talk and whining,
make bedtime easier, get
homework and chores done and
reduce bullying and lying. The
show will be packed with
solutions that you can use
whether your child is a toddler
or a teen!
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"Kids & Sports: Healthy or Overkill?"
January 6, 2010 Episode - Listen
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Kids & Sports: Healthy or
Overkill?
We all know the positives
connected to our kids playing
sports, but sports participation
may actually be harming our kids
more than we know. Have we
crossed a line where fun,
exercise and team spirit are no
longer the goals while traveling
teams and year-round sports are
causing more injuries, burnout,
pressure and emotional injuries
that hurt our children? Bob
Bigelow, former NBA player and
co-author of “Just Let the Kids
Play: How to Stop Other Adults
from Ruining Your Child’s Fun
and Success in Youth Sports”
will join the program to share
the facts and solutions for
making sports fun again for our
kids while still enjoying the
benefits that sports
participation can bring.
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"New Year’s
Resolutions to
Make Your Family Stronger"
December 30, 2009 Episode - Listen
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New Year’s Resolutions to Make
Your Family Stronger
Many people make New Year’s
resolutions to exercise and lose
weight but few parents make
resolutions to improve the most
important relationship of all –
family. It’s time to take stock
and see if you’re spending as
much time with your children as
you think. In today’s busy world
it’s easy to let family time,
family meals, couple time and
special time with your child
fall off the radar screen. Yet,
time spent with family is the
number one protective factor in
keeping your child happy and out
of trouble. Join Barbara
Carlson, co-founder of Putting
Family First-Making Time for
Family Initiative and Anne
Naumann, a mother of two and
part-time teacher, as they share
strategies for making your
family stronger throughout the
New Year. Barbara will also
share tips from her book,
“"Putting Family First;
Successful Strategies for
Reclaiming Family Life in a
Hurry-Up World.” |
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"What Values are
You Teaching Your Kids?"
December 23, 2009 Episode - Listen
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What Values are You Teaching
Your Kids?
We all get so busy with the
daily tasks of parenting that we
may not take a step back and
look at the big picture. What
values do you want your children
to have so they can be likeable,
compassionate, productive
adults? Are you making a
concerted effort to teach and
reinforce those values to your
children or just assuming that
they’re receiving those messages
from you? Richard and Linda Eyre
have made it their mission to
help parents on this journey
through their best-selling book,
Teaching Your Children Values,
instructional materials, media
appearances and world-wide
speaking engagements. Richard
will join “Real Parents. Real
Solutions.” to share the 12
values they believe are critical
to create a strong family and a
child you'll be proud of. Ideas
for incorporating those values
in your daily life will be
provided. As parents of 9
children, the Eyre’s have taught
these values to their own
children and their value-based
instructional materials have
been shared throughout the
world. |
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"Creating a
Mindset for Success in Your Child"
December 16, 2009 Episode - Listen
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Creating a Mindset for Success
in Your Child
We all want our children to be
successful. Many parents spend
an incredible amount of time and
money on the right school and
extracurricular activities in
the hopes that their child will
be successful when really, the
answer may lie within your
child. Helping your child
develop the proper “mindset” is
one of the most important things
that you can do to help your
child achieve more success in
the world. Carol Dweck, a
researcher at Stanford has
studied what helps children
succeed and fail for the last 40
years and she’ll share her
findings and steps you can take
to cultivate a “growth mindset”
within your child. Dweck is
author of the book, “Mindset:
The New Psychology of Success."
Kristin Boileau, a mother of 3,
and an Elementary School
Counselor in her 6th yr. at
Osceola Elementary School, will
also join us. Kristin believes
that children's social emotional
development is critically
important in a child's academic
success and will share tips on
helping your child succeed in
school.
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"Raising a
Generous Child in a “Me” Culture"
December 9, 2009 Episode - Listen
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Raising a Generous Child in a
“Me” Culture
If you’d like to fight the tidal
wave of “me” messages your child
receives and shift to “we”
messages more often, tune in as
four experts and parents share
ideas that can make significant
shifts in the generous nature of
your child. Corinne Gregory,
creator of SocialSmarts will
talk about creating an “attitude
of gratitude” that will open the
door for more generosity. Janet
Montgomery, mother of four, will
share real-life tips of how she
incorporates giving in her
children’s daily lives. Michelle
Holloman, a Certified
Professional Coach, will share
practical, everyday strategies
that make it easy to model
giving while teaching your kids
the “why” of giving rather than
just the “should” of giving.
Alison Smith and Debbie Zinman,
founders of ECHOage will provide
a fabulous idea for
incorporating giving into your
child’s next birthday party.
Learn how you can change your
child’s attitude from “What’s in
it for me?” to “How can I help?”
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"Money Matters:
Teach Your Child
How to Be Money-Savvy"
December 2, 2009 Episode - Listen
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Money Matters: Teach Your Child
How to Be Money-Savvy
Teaching your child how to
manage money is a big
responsibility. In today’s show,
Ellie Kay, financial expert,
author and mother of seven, will
break it down to make the job
manageable. Should you give your
child an allowance? How much
should it be? Should you tie it
to chores? How can you teach
your child about budgeting and
staying out of debt so they can
become savvy consumers? Ellie
will have answers to these
questions and more as she shares
real-life tips and activities
that will teach your child about
the value of money, saving and
giving. Ellie is a best-selling
author of 13 books, including
the book, “Money Doesn’t Grow on
Trees: Teaching Your Kids the
Value of a Buck” and an
internationally-known speaker on
financial matters.
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"Unplug Your
Kids From
Electronic Gadgets for Good!"
November 25, 2009 Episode - Listen
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Unplug Your Kids From Electronic
Gadgets for Good
TV shows, video games, computer
use, cell phones, texting ...
Kids are so plugged into
electronic devices that it seems
they barely have time for us
anymore! Can use of all these
gadgets harm our kids and if so,
how? How can we rein in their
usage and unplug the gadgets so
we can connect in more
meaningful ways with our kids?
Mike Mann, an award-winning
speaker fron the National
Institute on Media and the
Family will join us and share
his vast knowledge with us so we
can be "Media Wise" and unplug
for good! |
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"Stress Free
Holidays"
November 18, 2009 Episode - Listen
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Stress Free Holidays
Holidays are supposed to be fun,
right? Then why do we get so
stressed out? And what can we do
about it? Three professionals
will help us lower our stress so
we can enjoy the holidays more.
Elizabeth Scott, a stress
management expert, Beth Tabak, a
life coach, and Kathy Franzen, a
professional organizer, will
help us sort through our
priorities, simplify, reexamine
our expectations, give us
suggestions for dealing with
“the relatives” and provide
organizational tools that will
help us prepare for Thanksgiving
and the December holidays.
Resources for great articles,
checklists and low-cost options
will be provided, as well. |
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"Family Fun
Nights:
Have a Blast with Your Kids at Home"
November 11, 2009 Episode - Listen
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Family Fun Nights: Have a Blast
with Your Kids at Home
Looking for some fun low-cost
activities to beat the winter
doldrums? Debra Immergut, senior
editor at Disney Family Fun
magazine will share easy ideas
for beating boredom when the
winter weather keeps your family
indoors. Turn off the video
games or cartoon channels—
instead, try some kitchen
science projects, learn to knit
with a tin-can knitter, play a
get-active game, or make a
stop-motion movie. We’ll make it
simple to have some good, cheap
fun during the chilly season.
“Real parents” Mark and Sonja
Zapchenk will also share how
they’ve made family nights
special for years. |
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"Are You
Overindulging Your Child?"
November 4, 2009 Episode - Listen
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Are You Overindulging Your
Child?
There are lots of ways that
parents are overindulging their
kids these days… buying them too
much stuff, not disciplining
their kids consistently and over
nurturing them. Jean Illsley
Clarke’s research shows that
this can damage our kids in ways
that we never dreamed. She’ll
share concrete steps parents can
take to turn these problems
around so they can raise
likeable, responsible and
respectful child. Jean and her
co-authors wrote the book “How
Much is Enough” to provide
parents with a road map for
avoiding overindulgence which
can lead to adult children being
depressed, obese and in debt if
parents don’t make changes to
the way that they’re parenting.
Jean will share the highlights
of their findings and help you
figure out if you’re
overindulging your child and
ways to act differently if you
are. |
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"Solutions to 5
Scary Trends
Parents MUST Face"
October 28, 2009 Episode - Listen
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Solutions to 5 Scary Trends
Parents MUST Face
There are five scary trends that
you’ll want to learn about so
you can make sure that your
child is staying safe and
growing strong. We’re parenting
differently than our parents and
while we’re spending more time
with our kids, there are some
mistakes we’re inadvertently
making that’s causing an
alarming number of kids to
experience stress, anxiety,
depression and narcissistic
tendencies. Join the show so you
can learn the red flags with
parenting expert and educational
psychologist Michele Borba.
Borba will reveal the five
trends we need to face, the
reasons why it’s important to do
so and share concrete steps that
you can take to turn the
behaviors around in your family.
The show will be packed with
information from Michele’s new
book, “The BIG Book of Parenting
Solutions: 101 Answers to Your
Everyday Challenges and Wildest
Worries.”
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"Online
Parenting Advice:
Great Tips or Bum Advice?"
October 21, 2009 Episode - Listen
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Online Parenting Advice: Great
Tips or Bum Advice?
Parenting forums and message
boards are hugely popular.
Millions of parents give and
receive advice on parenting
forums, message boards and blogs
daily. Parents seem hungry to
connect with others online, yet
they’re reaching out less and
less to parents in person. Is
the advice helpful or
meaningless fluff? Are online
relationships replacing “real”
friendships? Can cyber
communities be supportive
communities or are people just
nosey? Voice your opinion by
calling in at 1-866-472-5788.
Then join managers of two of the
largest online communities,
Cindy Chapman from
www.momslikeme.com and a
manager from
www.Cafémom.com along with
Kathy VanDerostyne, the owner of
an unconventional parenting
forum,
www.sybermoms.com, and Jason
Avant, founder of
www.dadcentric.com, a blog
where dads gather as they share
heart-warming and jaw-dropping
stories from parents who use
their forums. Kristen Stuenkel,
a parent educator, will then
weigh in on the pros and cons of
parents using these forums.
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"Mealtime
Dilemmas Solved"
October 14, 2009 Episode - Listen
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Mealtime Dilemmas Solved
Many families struggle to make
meals enjoyable. When your child
is a picky eater, has food jags,
is rude, doesn’t eat at all or
eats all the wrong foods, it’s
stressful. Ellyn Satter, who is
the leading authority on
nutrition and feeding of infants
and children of all ages, will
share 40 years of wisdom working
with families so you can raise a
healthy eater. Practical, warm
and empowering, Satter will
share her advice about what your
job is when feeding your family
and what a child’s job is, give
tips on how to break out of the
short order cook business and
teach you how to relax around
food and create family-friendly
meals that will satisfy all of
you.
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"Better Sleep
Equals Happier Kids:
Find Out How"
October 7, 2009 Episode - Listen
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Better Sleep Equals Happier
Kids: Find Out How
Most kids (and adults) don't get
enough sleep which can leave
them cranky, uncooperative and
at a disadvantage in the
classroom. Insufficent sleep
affects behavior and it could be
that your acting-out child just
needs a few more ZZZZs. If you'd
like to get your child to sleep
longer, reduce bedtime hassles
and improve your child's mood
and performance, listen in when
Mary Sheedy Kurcinka, author of
"Sleepless in America: Is Your
Child Misbehaving ... or Missing
Sleep?" (and author of "Raising
Your Spirited Child") offers
sage advice on how to get your
child to sleep, ease tension and
work with temperament to get
your child (and you!) a good
night's sleep. You may reduce
temper tantrums, morning wars,
homework hassles and gain a
happier child by following the
strategies that Kurcinka will
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"Keep Your Kids
Healthy: H1N1, Head Lice, Playground Safety and More"
September 30, 2009 Episode - Listen
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Keep Your Kids Healthy: H1N1,
Head Lice, Playground Safety and
More
It’s never been more important
to keep your child healthy than
now. What steps can you take as
a parent and what do you need to
teach your child so your child
stays healthy? We’ll talk about
H1N1, head lice, playground
safety, strep throat, anxiety
and other health concerns your
child may face. We’ll talk about
practical steps you can take as
a parent to try and protect your
child like proper hand washing,
elbow coughing, sharing food and
cell phones, taking vitamins,
whether supplements work, great
sleep and nutrition habits and
more. |
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"17 Secrets to
Cutting the Family Budget"
September 23, 2009 Episode - Listen
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17 Secrets to Cutting the Family
Budget
Liss Burnell, founder of
www.budget101.com, the premier
website for helping families
save money will be sharing 17
secrets for helping you cut
expenses in your family. Liss
will share secrets for trimming
money from your grocery bills,
entertainment budget, home décor
and household expenses. With
creative, easy-to-implement
tips, Liss will help you save
money on craft items, holiday
gifts, cleaning products and
more. Tune in to save!
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"Lose the Mommy
Guilt for a Happier You"
September 16, 2009 Episode - Listen
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Lose the Mommy Guilt for a
Happier You
If you’re like most moms, you
feel guilty every day. You feel
guilty because you yell, your
house is messy, you don’t spend
enough time with your spouse and
you work outside the home. You
name it and you feel guilty
about it! You can lose the mommy
guilt and find ways to be
happier and have more fun with
your kids by using strategies
that Aviva Pflock and Devra
Renner share in their book,
“Mommy Guilt: Learn to Worry
Less, Focus on What Matters
Most, and Raise Happier Kids.”
You can learn the seven
principles of the Mommy
Guilt-Free Philosophy and
practical tips that will help
you keep your guilt in check at
every stage of your child’s
development. |
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"Great Ways to
Connect as a Couple"
September 9, 2009 Episode - Listen
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Great Ways to Connect as a
Couple
Do you still have dates with
your spouse or partner? Do you
have meaningful conversations
that remind you why you once
fell in love? If you’re like
most parents you’re focusing so
much effort on your kids and
work that you’re neglecting your
partner. And conversations
probably revolve around
schedules and the to-do list,
rather than anything that will
bring you closer. If you’d like
some creative ways to reconnect
with your lover, then tune in to
“Great Ways to Connect as a
Couple.” Author Kevin Anderson
who wrote “The 7 Spiritual
Practices of Marriage” and
conducted “date nights” in Ohio
for hundreds of couples will
provide insights on
communicating at a deeper level.
Dan Devey, owner of Coolest
Dates.com will spice up the show
with romantic date ideas sure to
light the love flames and Ann
and Mike Searles will share ways
that they’ve stayed connected in
16 years of marriage.
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"Best Back to
School Tips"
September 2, 2009 Episode - Listen
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Best Back to School Tips
You want your children to be
successful in school and with a
little planning on your part,
your child can have the best
school year yet. Lynda Enright,
a registered dietician will
provide tips on how to pack the
most nutrients into breakfast,
lunch and snacks that will give
your child the necessary energy
to concentrate in school. Audrey
Thomas, a certified professional
organizer, will provide tips on
how to organize for success.
Elementary school teacher Brad
Kasper will share important
pointers for homework success
and building rapport with
teachers to help your child in
the classroom. Call in at
1-866-472-5788 and share what's
worked for you, too. We welcome
your comments! |
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"Middle School Drama:
What’s a Parent to Do"
August 26, 2009 Episode - Listen
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Middle School Drama: What’s a Parent to Do?
Middle
school seems to bring out the worst in kids. Put downs.
Mean girls. Cliques. Ostracizing. Back talk. For parents
come many decisions. What to do about PG-13 movies?
Make-up? Crushes and dating? Academic pressures. Going
to malls and movie theatres alone. Excessive texting and
cell phone use. Emotional drama. What’s a parent to do?
Join Dr. Steve Kahn, a psychologist who specializes in
children, adolescents and families and ‘real mom” Sue
Navratil as we figure out how to wade through the
turbulent waters of middle school and all it’s drama.
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"Ask the Parent
Coaches"
August 19, 2009 Episode - Listen
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Ask the
Parent Coaches
Need answers to a parenting
challenge that you’re facing?
Call in (1-866-472-5788) to get
your questions answered from the
seven authors of “Parenting by
Strengths: A Parent’s Guide for
Challenging Situations.” With
over 150 years experience
helping parents, these seven
parent coaches are prepared to
offer guidance for the toughest
challenges you’re facing. The
authors, Cathy Rodrigues, Sarah
Gillen, Amy Johnson, Marion
Bloch, Janice Van Buren, Mary
Ivory and Toni Schutta can talk
with you about children from
birth to teens, children with
special needs, adoptive
children, biracial children,
parents in recovery, sex
education or any other concern
you’re currently facing. Give
them your best shot! The first
15 callers will receive a free
“Parenting by Strengths” E-book.
You can also send your questions
to
toni@getparentinghelpnow.com.
Any questions not answered on
air will be addressed here:
http://www.parentingbystrengths.com. |
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"Win the Chore Wars!"
August 12, 2009 Episode - Listen
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Win the Chore Wars!
Whether your child does chores
or not is one of the most
important contributors to your
child's success as a young
adult. Join Elizabeth Crary,
author of "Pick Up Your Socks"
and host Toni Schutta, as they
share tips with you on how to
get your child to do chores, how
to make it fun, age-appropriate
chores and whether or not you
should pay your child for
chores. Crary is the author of
32 parenting books and has 35
years experience working with
children. "Real Parent"
Stephanie Severson will also
join the conversation with a
secret tip for encouraging her
three kids to do chores. Tune in
to get your child on the path to
success and enjoy a cleaner
house! |
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“Reduce Sibling
Hassles Now”
Aug. 5, 2009 Episode - Listen
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Reduce Sibling Hassles Now!
He did it! She started it! It’s
not fair! Sibling rivalry is as
old as time itself. Do we really
have any hope of reducing it?
You bet we do! Adele Faber,
co-author of “Siblings Without
Rivalry: How to Help Your
Children Live Together So You
Can Live Too” a book that has
sold millions of copies, will
share her secrets for what to do
when the kids fight, how to let
the bad feelings out and more!
Sibling hassles are exhausting!
Come and learn solutions from
the best teacher, Adele Faber.
Moms Lisa LaSota and Lisa Mansur
will join us, too. Call in at
1-866-472-5788 with your
questions.
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“Are You
Accidentally Raising a Wimp?”
July 29, 2009 Episode - Listen
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Parents:
Are You Accidentally Raising a
Wimp?
You want the best for your
child. You sign your kids up for
the right classes, find good
schools, keep them safe and
manage a hundred details to make
sure that they're successful.
Yet, how is it that parents who
mean only the best for their
kids wind up bringing out the
worst in them? The problem,
according to Hara Estroff Marano,
author of “A Nation of Wimps” is
that you may be doing too much
for your child which makes your
child more fragile. In your
effort to be a "good" parent you
may be stressing achievement at
the cost of independence and
short-circuiting essential brain
development. Join the
conversation to figure out if
you're a nurturing or
controlling parent, whether
perfectionism is harming your
child and whether your safety
concerns are justified or
inhibiting your child's
development. Tune in to see if
you're over-parenting and
setting your child up for
failure and how a new definition
of success can help you all be
happier.
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