This information is ONLY for parents willing to make the changes necessary
to solve your biggest parenting challenges once and for all …

“Finally! Practical Strategies You Can Use NOW to Ditch Your Kid’s
Disrespect, Defiance and Stubbornness without Losing Your Cool!!”

Get the guidance and tools you need so your kids listen the first time, respond to your discipline, stop talking back and quit throwing fits!

(Really! These strategies have worked for thousands of families - put them to work for you, too!).
 

From the Desk of Toni Schutta
November 2011

Dear Frustrated Parent,

Does any of this sound familiar?

  • Everything’s a struggle with your kids. You have to ask them at least a hundred times to do everything, whether it’s getting out the door on time, shutting the TV off or picking up their socks… It’s exhausting.

  • You find yourself giving in whenever your child throws a fit– just to get him to stop screaming — even though you know it’s not the best plan of action.

  • You feel so disrespected – from the constant back talk to the frequent arguing and whining – that you’re ready to throw in the towel (only you can’t do that, because you don’t get time off from parenting!).

  • Every day, you’re picking up after your kids. They just drop things wherever they land and assume you’re going to clean up after them.

  • Every night, it takes forever to get your kids to bed. And when you finally do, they get back up numerous times before they finally fall asleep.

  • If you say, “no,” your child ignores you or does it anyway. Or they start negotiating and bug you until you give in.

  • Your kids’ bickering can escalate quickly into a fight of gigantic proportions – slamming doors, throwing things, screaming, crying, even hitting and kicking.

  • Whenever these situations arise (which is at least several times daily), you can easily end up yelling – and then feel guilty.

    You’re exhausted, overwhelmed and frustrated – tired of trying to do it all but not feeling like you’re doing a very good job at any of it. When it comes to getting your kids to behave, you feel like you’ve tried everything, and nothing works. Parenting is a lot harder than you thought it was going to be.

    If this is you, you’re not alone.

    In fact, in her book, “The Big Book of Parenting Solutions,” renowned author, speaker and educational consultant Dr. Michele Borba points out that…

“60 percent of adults also feel that today’s parents are not measuring up to the standards set just a generation ago. In fact, most Americans feel that today’s parents are doing a far worse job than their own mothers did just 20 or 30 years ago … The majority of moms and dads today agree with their low performance ratings and feel that they’ve been unsuccessful in their parenting endeavors” (p. xix).

The good news is, if you aren’t feeling too successful in your own parenting endeavors, you’re in the right place – and it doesn’t have to be this way.

It’s not your fault you’re struggling with your kids (or, more specifically, with their behavior). Parenting is hard. Your children, at a very young age, have minds (and mouths!) of their own. And it’s completely natural for them to test the waters. What you must do – for your own sanity and for their growing minds – is to ensure those waters are stable, predictable and calm.

Plus you’re busy, whether you work outside the home or stay home with your children. If you’ve made time for parenting books or classes, they likely left you hanging when it comes to implementing the theories they teach.

Thankfully, you CAN implement real-life, working solutions that deliver good behavior, decreased stress, and increased quality time with your family.

That’s where I come in.

I’m Toni Schutta, and it’s my mission to help families live happier lives.

The beauty of what I do is to provide you with solid, research-driven facts first. Then I provide solutions, solutions, solutions.

These aren’t just theories. These are real-life solutions that you can use every day to solve your challenges.

I like to say I give you the forest and the trees.

You see, my career began 17 years ago as a psychologist helping families and children. Ten years later, I became a parent coach.

So, as a psychologist, I’m trained to understand human behavior. And as a parent coach, I give parents action steps they can take to solve their children’s behavior problems.

Today I’m a national speaker, author and parent coach. As host of “Real Parents, Real Solutions,” a parenting talk show on www.voiceamerica.com, the world’s largest internet radio station, I shared tips and advice with parents worldwide. And I’m a frequent guest expert on radio shows as well as on TV.

I’m also co-author of Parenting by Strengths: A Parent’s Guide for Challenging Situations. And I’m honored to have been a featured expert in various national magazines including Parents, Woman’s World, and First for Women.

On top of all that, I’m the president of Families First Coaching, an organization devoted to providing parents with resources to empower and strengthen their families. I’ve had the great pleasure of helping thousands of families live happier lives. Now I want to help you!

For the past 7 years, I’ve researched parents’ biggest parenting challenges. And I’ve catalogued the solutions.

Now I’ve taken all of my parenting knowledge and experience and combined it in one place…

“Introducing ‘The Ultimate Parenting Toolkit’ – the first-ever,
all-in-one product that provides customizable solutions
to your 10 biggest parenting challenges.”

The Ultimate Parenting Toolkit is the culmination of all my research and experience. I’ve taken the Top 10 Parenting Problems, according to my research, and distilled their solutions down into 10 powerful lessons complete with practical solutions.

Then I’ve put it all together into 11, 60-minute audio recordings – plus a study guide for each course. It’s all packed with strategies you can use immediately to solve parenting challenges you face every day!

“I’ve been a child and adolescent therapist helping children
and families for almost 30 years and now direct a non-profit organization. As a therapist, I can tell you that the advice given in the Parenting Tool Kit is grounded
in research and best practices. As a parent, I can
tell you that the real-life practical strategies
that Toni provides, work. I’ve never seen a collection
of parenting advice that’s so clear and easy to
implement. Toni knows her stuff.”
Libby Bergman, L.I.C.S.W. and parent of two

Without further ado, here’s what ‘The Ultimate Parenting Toolkit’ Covers:

  • Lesson #1 - Get Your Child to Listen the FIRST Time!
    How many times do you have to ask your son to put away his laundry? How many times do you have to ask him to come to the table for dinner? What if you asked your daughter to pick her backpack up off the floor and she complied, the first time? It’s possible!

    Here’s what you learn during this 60-minute course:
     

    • 21 options for what to say and do to get your kids to listen the first time

    • How to gain cooperation from your child the FIRST time

    • What to do so you no longer need to nag
       

    “I tried one of the strategies that you recommended and
    that one change has increased my daughter’s compliance
    by 75%. I can’t wait to try some of the others and
    share them with my husband.” Meg G.

     

  • Lesson #2 - Create a Discipline Plan that Works

    We’ve all done it. We’ve given in when our kids whine or throw tantrums. We’ve let them off the hook for bad behavior because we don’t have the time or energy to enforce a consequence.

    But guess what? Research shows that being a “discipline wimp” is harmful to your children. If you do just one thing to improve your parenting, it should be to become more consistent when disciplining your children.

    Here’s what you learn during this 120-minute course:
     

    • 10 positive discipline methods you can use that get results

    • Dozens of practical solutions to improve your child’s behavior (yes, you really can!)

    • How to stop yelling and start being more consistent – and effective
       

      “If every parent took your class and applied what they
      learned, the world would be a much better place. Even
      with my 2-year-old there are strategies that I’m
      using that have worked wonders! Thanks again
      for the wonderful class!” Jami Eckerle


       

      “This opened my eyes to the common communication
      pitfalls that I fall into. I hope to be yelling less as a
      result of this training.” Anonymous Parent
      Evaluation, Amazing Grace

       

  • Lesson #3 - Stop Back Talk and Whining Now

    Do you feel disrespected by your children because of the constant arguing? Is the hair on the back of your neck standing on end because of that icky whining you’ve heard all day? As a parent, you should have a zero tolerance policy for back talk and whining. That’s hard to do if you don’t know the right way to do it.

    Here’s what you learn during this 60-minute course:
     

    • How to avoid common communication errors (yes, you could be causing the back talk – and you can stop it!)

    • 8 tips for reducing back talk and increasing respect

    • 9 tips for cutting the whining NOW
       

    “This class was the best use of an hour that
    I’ve had in a long, long time!” J.D. 3M 

     

  • Lesson #4 - Reduce Bedtime Hassles and Increase Sleep

    You work so hard to get your children in bed. Then, finally, after stories, hugs, kisses, cuddles, more hugs, one more drink of water, and another kiss, they’re in bed.

    You shut the door only to have them popping up again several times. And once you finally go to bed yourself, it’s only a few hours before a little body is snuggled in close to you.

    The next day, no one has gotten enough sleep, and everyone is grumpy.

    Here’s what you learn during this 60-minute course:
     

    • Get a 10-point checklist for setting the stage for sleep – so bedtime goes effortlessly

    • Sleep-inducing rituals that work

    • How to nix the “pop out” once your kids are in bed

    • A proven, working system for getting your kids to sleep in their own bed

    • How to create a Get Ready Routine, which includes a road map for you and your child to use each night.

      “I went from being hopeless to feeling empowered.
      I didn’t realize how much my parenting was directly
      affecting his acting out. The changes have been
      monumental! I can’t tell you how wonderful
      bedtime has become. I feel like a new person.”
      Laurie, Woodbury, MN       

       

  • Lesson #5 - No More Meltdowns (Yours or Your Child’s)

    It can happen so quickly: one minute your darling angels are playing so nicely together and the next, they’re flinging toys with superhuman strength.

    It’s natural to get angry – but it’s necessary to express anger the right way so that no one’s body or feelings get hurt. You can help your child do that by implementing a proven, step-by-step process designed to reduce angry outbursts – for you and your child.

    Here’s what you learn during this 75-minute course:
     

    • What YOU must do if you expect your child to express her anger in a healthy way

    • 14 calming methods you can teach your child

    • 9 common anger triggers in children – and how to cope with them

    • A psychological understanding of how anger works, so you can deal with it effectively

    • How to use a helpful tool for objectively analyzing your child’s behavior – so you don’t melt down, too

      “Within one week, my son’s tantrums have decreased!
      My husband was amazed! After listening to the class,
      I’m better able to recognize my son’s anger in an
      early stage, remind him of the method he chose to
      help him calm down and talk about it after so he c
      an sort through his feelings. Thanks you so much
      for bringing sanity to our lives!”
      Mom of a 3-year-old boy in Woodbury, MN 

       

  • Lesson #6 - Bullying Hurts Kids: Teach Your Child How to Cope and Conquer!

    Nothing is more heartbreaking than hearing your child has experienced bullying. Experts estimate that half of all children feel stress and anxiety at school from bullying. That stress and anxiety can lead to angry outbursts at home – and you get the brunt of it. The good news is, you can help your child deal with bullying when it happens, and prevent it in the future.

    Here’s what you learn during this 60-minute course:
     

    • 14 options you can teach your child for deflecting the taunts of bullies

    • How to empower your child with strategies that put them back in charge

    • Exactly how to communicate with school officials to ensure your child is treated with respect

      “You gave me the words to express what’s been going on with my child. You also gave me the tools to teach my child so he feels strong and capable of stopping the bullying.”
      Pequot Lakes Parent Evaluation 

       

  • Lesson #7 - Key Strategies for Reducing Power Struggles
    Tired of the constant arguing and negotiating? No one ever wins – but someone usually ends up angry. It even happens with the simplest things. If you’re tired of the constant challenges from your child, you need solutions that work.

    Here’s what you learn during this 60-minute course:
     

    • The Top 10 parent-child power struggles, and how to get through each one

    • A classic mistake parents make, which can actually create power struggles (are you making it?)
      • Communication strategies that get your child to cooperate (really!)

    • How to determine which battles are worth fighting – and which you can let go

      “It has only been a few days since the class, but I can
      already see the difference in my behavior and how that
      affects my children! I am seeing them respond when I
      “catch them being good” and I got a high five from my
      daughter when I hold her how proud I was when she
      listened the first time a couple different times that day!

      I am able to stay calm when the waters get rough and they respond to that as well. It seems like the “blow-ups” end quicker and an understanding has been reached using the techniques I learned.” Heather Schroeder
       

       

  • Lesson #8 - Relief for Homework Headaches

    Did you know your child has double the amount of homework you had as a child? And when he or she has homework, you have homework!

    Whether you have to battle your child to sit down and complete his assignments, or they struggle to understand the concepts, homework can cause lots of frustration and stress for busy parents. Believe it or not, though, homework time can be fun! (No, that’s not a typo!)

    Here’s what you learn during this 60-minute course:
     

    • Homework rituals that work so getting them started isn’t a battle anymore

    • Simple tricks to get homework done in less time

    • How to have fun while doing homework (I promise, it’s possible!)

    • The 3 parts to the homework brain – learn them all to have your child happily doing their homework in no time

      “This class had good practical examples combined
      with theory. My favorite part was munchie math.
      I will be better able to get my daughter to do
      homework by herself as a result of this training.”
      Middleton Elementary School Mom
       

       

  • Lesson #9 - Win the Chore Wars
    Did you know that the number one predictor of your child’s success as a young adult is whether they had chores growing up? It’s true.

    Your kids aren’t doing you a favor when they do chores. You’re doing them a favor. They may not see it that way now, but when you implement what you learn in this class, they gain valuable life skills, learn to delay gratification, and feel pride in a job well done. All they need is a little push to get started.

    Here’s what you learn during this 60-minute course:
     

    • Dozens of ideas for making chores fun

    • Organizational strategies so you can stay on top of clutter (yes, you really can!)

    • How to get a chore system started and keep it going strong

      "Just wanted to let you know how much I enjoyed your
      chores class. Your ideas are great and your explanations
      are easy to understand. Thank you so much!! I know that
      I’ll be setting up a chore system now."
      Denise, Palm Beach, FLA.
       

       

  • Lesson #10 - Money Matters: Teach Your Kid the Value of a Buck

    Far too many kids seem to think money grows on trees (or comes from credit cards with no fees, penalties or paybacks). Raising a child to be a fiscally responsible adult starts now.

    If you want your child to be money-savvy, you can’t leave this topic to what they learn on TV. Get your child on the path to financial success with real-life, easy-to-implement strategies.

    Here’s what you learn during this 60-minute course:
     

    • When you should start an allowance – and how much you should pay your child

    • Whether the allowance should be tied to chores – don’t make this common parenting mistake

    • 14 practical and powerful strategies you can use to teach your child to save money, control impulse buying and be a wise consumer

      "I loved the real-life tips. I’ve been wondering about
      starting an allowance system, whether or not to tie it
      to chores and how much to give. I got answers to all of
      these questions and much more.” Holly, Dayton, OH
       

    Now, you may be thinking, “This sounds great, Toni, but how are you going to teach me to …
     

    • Get my child to listen the first time

    • Create a discipline plan that works

    • Stop back talk and whining now

    • Reduce bedtime hassles and increase sleep

    • Nix meltdowns (my child’s and my own)

    • Teach my child to cope with and conquer bullying

    • Reduce power struggles

    • Get relief for homework headaches

    • Win the chore wars

    • Teach my child the value of a buck?”

    Great question.

    I know doing just one of these can seem like an almost impossible task. But you really can make these powerful changes – and have a much happier, healthier relationship with your children as a result.

    First of all, you should know I’m totally committed to your success. As I mentioned before, helping families live happier lives is my mission. And I have helped literally thousands. So I know for a fact you CAN do this. You just need a little expert guidance.

    There’s just one catch: if you really want to make changes, you actually have to make changes.

    So if you’re ready to take a long hard look at your parenting strategies, and make some positive changes, I’m here to help.

    Here’s how we’re going to do it, together.

     When you purchase ‘The Ultimate Parenting Toolkit’ you get:
     

    • 11 immediately downloadable audio files: one for each course, plus a second audio for the 2-part discipline course (Or you have the option of receiving the classes on a CD)

    • A study guide for each course, so you can take notes and have a written record of all the strategies at your fingertips

    • A variety of practical, customizable strategies for dealing with each problem, along with real-life examples to bring it all home

    PLUS, you get these valuable BONUSES:
     

    • BONUS GIFT 1: “50 Money Making Ideas for Kids and Teens – PLUS 6 Other Surprise Gifts…”

      “With over 50 fun and fabulous ideas of cool ways kids and teens can start earning their own money so they can stop using you like their very own personal bank machine! Earning their own money will give your child a great feeling of personal achievement and will make attaining their financial goals incredibly rewarding! Enjoy!”
       

    • BONUS GIFT 2: “Discover How To Get Your Child or Teen On Track To Fulfilling Their Dreams!”

      “This free video and special report will show you how to get your child ‘unstuck’ and how to take responsibility for their own lives! Enjoy!”
       

    • BONUS GIFT 3: “A Delicate Balance: Integrating Work and Family in a Way that Works for You,” Podcast

      It would be so nice if work and family balance was a one-size fits all package. But just as families are unique and individual, so are the solutions that work for each family. As individuals we really need to take the initiative to plan, brainstorm, and think through solutions to address potential roadblocks to our work and family integration before they occur. Beth Quist, Executive Director of Working Family Resource Center, helps you learn more about integrating work and family in a way that’s healthy for you and your loved ones.

    Save the audio files onto your computer, MP3 player or a disk then listen in privacy whenever you have the time, wherever you are. No need to find a babysitter or make time to attend a class. No need for anyone to know.

     How do you know this information is going to work for you?
    This is not “One size fits all” information. Parenting isn’t cookie cutter. And what works for one child may not work for another child. So you get a variety of ready-to-use solutions for each problem. Then you just pick the ones that fit your kid’s personality and stage of development.
     

    • Imagine having one place to go for answers to your most common and pressing parenting questions…
       

    • Imagine actually knowing, for sure, what to say and do when your child starts acting up or acting out…
       

    • Imagine having happy, well-adjusted kids ready and willing to do their homework or help you with chores…

    Now imagine the relief that comes with knowing everything isn’t going to turn into a battle… No more constant yelling, tantrums, bribery, begging or cajoling.

    With the information in ‘The Ultimate Parenting Toolkit” you can finally feel like the kind of parent you always wanted to be.

    You’re going to be far happier and far, far saner. And you’re going to have happier kids now, who are going to grow into successful, well-adjusted adults with stellar parenting skills they learned from you.


    "Toni's parenting strategies are direct, on point and easy to implement. They've helped me be the parent I want to be. Although, there are no magic bullets in parenting,
    implementing the numerous easy-to-use parenting
    strategies in this parenting tool kit has made a world of difference in our household.” Celia Waldock, mother of two
     


     


    "I’m a woman that was brought up in an unhealthy home with a parent that had unhealthy responses towards me. As a mother of four, I have found Toni’s healthy parenting responses SO helpful!! Being a busy mother, it is nice to have easy to use and straight forward solutions to my frequent parenting struggles. The thing that I love about Toni’s classes is that in 60-minutes I can listen to a class on my MP3 player or in the car and find numerous solutions that I can use for all four kids, whether it’s my 3rd grader, 6th grader or teenagers. I especially liked the strategies in the “Key Strategies for Reducing Power Struggles” audio. I, also, like that she includes a worksheet that I can take notes on while listening to her class. It makes it really easy to look up a struggle and how to handle it quickly. I’m less frustrated now because I don’t have to say things three times anymore! For that alone, I’m grateful, but there are so
    many other great tips, too. Thanks, Toni!”
    Kristen LaBerge, mother of four
     


     


    "As a mom and as a teacher, I found so many practical, useful, real-life tips to make my life easier. Toni’s classes are all topics that we deal with on a daily basis: getting homework done, getting chores done, getting to bed on time, being thoughtful about making the right discipline choice. I especially liked
    the 10 positive discipline options she provides because
    I’m with kids 24/7 and I found so many great
    strategies to put in my parenting tool kit!”
    Laurie Vinyon, mother of three
     

    Now you’re probably wondering what this is all going to cost you. It’s 11 hours of proven, practical instruction on your biggest parenting challenges. It comes from a nationally-recognized parenting expert, in a format designed to fit your busy lifestyle.

    Most importantly, once you implement just a few of these solutions, you’re going to enjoy more quality time with your children. And you’re going to be FAR less stressed.

    What’s that worth to you?

    Priceless, right?

    Parents have told me I could easily charge $997 for this entire toolkit. And I seriously considered charging $397.

    But I didn’t design this program to get rich quick. And I don’t want to break the bank for you in these tough economic times. So I decided to charge only $197 for the physical CD version and $97 for the downloadable version.

    Because I really want you to have a happy family life,     right now, you can buy ‘The Ultimate Parenting Toolkit’ for just $97 or $47!

    That’s less than it costs to go out for one dinner at a mid-range restaurant. And with the information in the toolkit you’re going to make changes that last a lifetime. .

    If you’re thinking about the time investment – because I know you’re busy – consider this…
     

    • How much time do you spend repeating your requests, waiting for your kids to comply?
       

    • How much time do you spend fighting about discipline?
       

    • How much time do you spend struggling over homework?

    Wouldn’t it be far more pleasant for everyone if you spent just a fraction of that time learning, and applying, the information in the toolkit? Then you could stop the fighting, struggling, cajoling and aggravation that suck away what could be quality time with your child.

    Of course if you’re not ready to make a change, and you’re okay with more of the same, then do not invest in this toolkit…

    Just be ready to stay stuck, frustrated and unhappy, because your family life is so different than the one you dreamed of. Be ready to keep feeling guilty because you’re yelling at your kids daily. Be ready to live with the status quo.

    Or do something about it.

    With this life-changing toolkit your parenting becomes so much more efficient and effective – it’s really a no-brainer investment — especially for less than $100!

    But if you’re like most people, you’re counting every penny these days. And you want to make sure you’re going to get real value for your investment.

    So just in case you’re still not sure, I’m taking away all the risk.

    ‘The Ultimate Parenting Toolkit’
    is Covered By My 1-year,
    100% Money-Back Guarantee!

    Buy the kit, listen to the audios, and use it for a year. If you don’t feel it lives up to your expectations, simply ask for a refund. You get your entire investment
    back, no questions asked.


     

    As a recap, for just $97 (on CD) or $47 (downloadable) you get:

    • 11 digital audio files covering your 10 biggest parenting challenges:

      1. Get Your Child to Listen the FIRST Time!
      2. Create a Discipline Plan that Works (Two 60-minute audios)
      3. Stop Back Talk and Whining Now
      4. Reduce Bedtime Hassles and Increase Sleep
      5. No More Meltdowns (Yours or Your Child’s!)
      6. Bullying Hurts Kids: Teach Your Child How to Cope and Conquer!
      7. Key Strategies for Reducing Power Struggles
      8. Relief for Homework Headaches
      9. Win the Chore Wars
      10. Money Matters: Teach Your Kid the Value of a Buck
       

    • Helpful study guides to download that accompany each lesson

      Everything Backed by a 1-year, 100% Money-Back,
      No Questions Asked Guarantee.


    Are you ready to transform your family life and become the parent you always wanted to be?
    Then take the first step now and order your copy of ‘The Ultimate Parenting Toolkit’     for just for just $97 (on CD) or $47 (downloadable)!

     

    Downloadable Version - $47

    CD Version - $97 + 19.99 S/H


    More importantly, you get to rest easy knowing you’re putting into place proven systems that get you results.

    And remember, the toolkit is customizable. I know each child, each family, is different, and parenting is not cookie-cutter. That’s why I include a variety of tips in each lesson so you can adapt the information to your family.

    It’s time to make a change. You are a wonderful parent, and you have wonderful children.

    If you’re tired of being exhausted, sick of being frustrated, then it’s time to take action now. Get the tools you need to get the best out of your kids – and live happier!

    Order ‘The Ultimate Parenting Toolkit’ now!
     

    Downloadable Version - $47

    CD Version - $97 + 19.99 S/H

     
    Here’s to being the best parent you can be,

    Toni
    P.S. How many times, today, have you had to repeat your requests to your children? Wouldn’t you love to ask once and get compliance? You can – with the tools you get in this toolkit. Order yours now and spend less time nagging and more time enjoying.